More on forgiveness...

In accounting terms, forgiveness is just like writing off a bad debt. If you keep it lingering, it never fails to come back with its full charge of bad vibes.

“Kill it” or write it off, it's off your books and it's soon forgotten. I probably will have to make a list of all the pardons I made yesterday for mostly trivial stuff, but I'm certainly glad I did.

In the meantime, I need to remember them all; not to reminisce them, but to remind myself that it's completely over and that it would be an emotional as well as a time waste to revisit the issue!