How unique are we?

I sometime wonder what make us unique, and if that trait still can grow and get richer as we grow older? That’s a fair and fascinating question that touches on many aspects of our humanity. These days we all understand that it all begins with our DNA that maps out our physical traits and predispositions. Then, everyone’s journey is different, shaped by unique encounters, relationships, and events. 

These experiences form our perspectives, beliefs, and values. Even before that, my individual personality for example, has been shaped by my environment, my parents, my multiples occupations, travels experiences and evolving values which all influence how I’ve interact with the world. This I’ve also interpreted and understood based on my experiences and belief. 

Each time, I’ve changed job or tried to “re-invent” myself, I acquired new skills and talents that were developed through practice, learning, and my innate abilities. Over the years, my jobs and my moves, I’ve knit a network of relationships that has contributed to my sense of self and has shaped the way I’ve interacted with the world. 

Finally, aging and all the years I’ve been around the block have grown that capital of experiences, which further diversified my perspectives and enriched my understanding of the world. All the mistakes I’ve made have also gained me a deeper understanding of myself, my strengths, and of course, my weaknesses. 

I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that aging as gained a more authentic and meaningful sense of self, greater wisdom and a more nuanced understanding of complex situations. Overall, while there may be some limitations, the potential for our uniqueness to grow and enrich as we age is significant. 

It's a process of ongoing development and self-discovery, so if we're interested in it, let’s all keep growing it!