How can we see we’re lied to?

If you’re not an easy target for liars and lies, how can you help folks who fall for them, see the lie before they believe it. 

Well, we begin by helping them develop a healthy skepticism and question the information they get, especially when it originates from sources that may have a vested interest in misleading them. Show them different angles and a variety of viewpoints and sources of information to help them get a more balanced and nuanced understanding of issues. 

Most importantly though, have them verify all the information they receive before sharing it or acting on it, like passing it on to their buddies! Show them what fact-checking websites are, and how to navigate the news. Tell them about media bias; all media sources have some degree of bias, so teach them to identify different types of bias and how they can influence reporting. 

Show them how and where to find evidence-based reporting and avoid sources that rely on sensational headlines and emotional appeals. Instead, support investigative journalism that exposes corruption and dishonesty. Make sure they understand that it’s their right to demand transparency and accountability from leaders in government, business, and other institutions. 

Make them also understand that honesty and integrity is the only way to conduct one’s life and encourage them to speak up against lies and misinformation when they encounter them. For all of us, let’s not forget to spot persuasion techniques used in advertising, marketing, and political campaigns and let’s also establish clear boundaries in our relationships and interactions with others. 

Let’s not be afraid to say "no" or to question information that seems suspicious. Keep in mind that while people may sometimes prefer to be misled, it's ultimately harmful to them and society as a whole. By cultivating critical thinking skills, promoting media literacy, and fostering a culture of honesty, we can all create a more informed and truthful society.