Standing up to bullies

As Trump gets ready to regain power in the US, I would hope that its opposition handles his bullying behavior much more robustly than it did during the man’s first term. To handle bullies, one must answer them quickly and forcefully and I would recommend a force response ratio of 3 to 1.

This is perfectly called for as we don't have to tolerate their behavior and that a disproportionate response will scare the bejesus out of them. Here are some fitting strategies. 

First it’s essential to assert oneself as bullies thrive on fear and intimidation. Ignoring their behavior will always embolden them. It’s time tto stand for what we believe is right, by using forceful, yet respectful language and clearly communicate what behavior will and will not be tolerated. 

Make sure to let others know about the bullying in seeking widespread support and using the available means (media and such) to broadcast it in a loud manner and tone. We must remember to focus on our strength, positive qualities and accomplishments as we’re not, for the most part, convicted felons! 

While some will recommend avoiding escalation and walking away, I’m convinced that’s good advice. One needs to respond extremely intensely and loudly to discourage any further attempt at bullying and turn that venom around straight in the perpetrator’s face (fight fire with treble intensity and don’t do as Jesus said by turning the other cheek.) 

The bottom line is that to fight a bully, one has to check fear at the door and be ready to deliver a really punishing blow and create a shocking surprise so bullies won’t even think of doing it again!