We can only change the future!

It's amazing how much time we waste wondering about past outcomes that could have been changed has this or that happened or if we had made a better decision.

The use for that kind of rear-view mirror driving is to learn from past mistakes and that's about it.

The only thing we can affect is the now and the future and that's enough a lot of work if we focus on these two era without beating ourselves up with the "Shoulda Woulda Coulda" chorus...